- A man has gone viral on social media for teaching a lady who tried to eat fare a lesson the hard way
- The man sent the lady transport money after they agreed to meet at his place, but she blocked him after receiving the cash
- Speaking to TUKO.co.ke, relationship expert Allan Lawrence also said that men can be kind and generous to women without expecting anything in return
An X influencer has left netizens in stitches after reversing the cash he had sent a lady for transport.
Source: UGC
The man shared a screenshot showing the amount of cash he sent the lady before she blocked him.
How much did the man send the lady?
In the leaked screenshots, they agreed to meet and even planned to cook together. The man then sent the lady KSh 890, but upon receiving the money, she failed to show up and blocked the poor guy.
The disappointed man then called the FinTech mobile money customer support to reverse the cash, and they did.
“We had an agreement that she was gonna come over and cook for me. I sent her money, and she never responded to my text again,” read his message to the financial service platform.
The overjoyed guy shared the screenshot and captioned:
“I received my money back the following day. Her account was frozen 😂.”
Below is the screenshot:
Social media reactions
Many found the situation funny, while others called out the man, terming his actions as childish.
Olami Lejan:
“Almighty Allah will bless this OPay for me.. Werey collect transport money, block me.. E sweet my belle😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.”
Jozycrypo007:
“God is fighting our battles, big ups brotherly. May the force be with you.”
PelumiAyomide7:
“This thing happened to me too. I first called the customer care, I explained give them I con come the app report the transaction with screenshot of chats and transaction details na the girl call me himself the next day them refund my money asap.”
Dommy Adagala:
“Brotherhood is happy 😅.”
Carol Mamake Kyla:
“😂😂😂🤣 KSh 890 nilidhani ni 890k waaah.”:
Mmuka Jonathan:
“😂🤣🤣🤣Poor girls with expensive lifestyles suffer a lot 🤣.”
Onifadeademol10:
“Wish I knew this way back. Aisha whatever you did to me😔.”
IsiAbuncha:
“And you don’t know you could have sued her to claim more money.”
Source: Twitter
Should men send women fare?
Relationship expert Allan Lawrence advised women to have their own money and not depend on me, opining that when one provides for you financially, it is easy for them to manipulate you.
“If a man has to facilitate and finance your movement and lifestyle. He will feel entitled, and you will be no different from furniture in his house or anything they own. That’s why as a woman, be empowered and make your own money so that no one will do things to you and make it look like it is a big favour that they can bossy you around! Remember who feeds and finances you can easily manipulate you,” he said.
Lawrence continued:
“Ladies, kindly note there’s nothing like just jamming on low-hanging fruits, they will cost you more than you think, let a man view you not through the lenses of bedroom prowess, but what you can offer in the boardroom and marketplace not just bedroom! So if he’s sending you fare, it is for what? Unless otherwise, never allow a man to send you fare just for you to be there! A real man will want to see you empowered and in your element, not creating a dependent syndrome in you. Empower yourself as a woman to avoid cheap, embarrassing moments. Having your own money gives you high bargaining power.”
The relationship expert also said that men can be kind and generous to women without expecting anything in return.
” You can be financially kind to a woman without expecting anything in return. Any lady you meet older than you, treat them as your mum. Anyone at your age help them like your own elder sister, younger than you, see them as your daughter,” he said.
Is eating fare illegal in Kenya?
Recently, TUKO.co.ke reported that Kenyan women were overjoyed after Senior Resident Magistrate Tabitha Mbugua, who serves as an adjudicator at the Eldoret Small Claims Court, revealed that the court doesn’t handle cases of eating men’s fare.
In an interview with NTV, the magistrate was quick to dismiss the matter as something unworthy of the court’s intervention.
Source: TUKO.co.ke
