- Ahsila Griffin always knew that her husband had been a gay man, but he claimed that he had changed for her
- His admission paved the way for their wedding, but some steps taken by her man at the wedding did not make sense to her at all
- The young woman said that she was also not happy with the way he behaved whenever the other man texted him
- Ahsila has since shared that she needs to know if she can trust him, and the young man also clapped back at her
A young woman, identified as Ahsila Griffin, is unsettled as her fiancé, who was formerly gay, invited his ex to their wedding and even asked him to choose her wedding dress.
Source: Facebook
In a heartfelt Facebook post, Ahsila said that she had long accepted the fact that her man used to date men and never questioned him when he said he had changed for her.
“I thought that part of his life was behind him… because people can change, until he invited his ex-boyfriend to our wedding,” she said. “And get this, the only reason he invited him was because he ‘helped’ pick out my wedding dress,” she added.
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How did Ahsila feel about her lover’s ex at the wedding?
Although Ahsila found the presence of her lover’s ex at her wedding weird, she tried to make the best of it.
When she was looking back at their wedding day, her husband did not look very happy standing next to her.
“Lately, it’s been eating at me more, especially after I caught him smiling at a message from that same ex last week. Should I really trust him?” she asked.
Why do netizens think Ahsila made a mistake?
According to a netizen identified as Celine Mitchell, Ahsila made a mistake in marrying a gay man. She insisted that even if there was a shortage of men, that should not have happened.
“Is it that you don’t believe you deserve better? Your life is going to be miserable because you married a gay person, and you will be competing with a man for your husband the rest of your life,” she said.
“The sad part about it is that you choose to do that. I wish you the best in your decision-making moving forward,” she added.
How did Netizens react to the story?
Ahsila Griffin
“He said he has been delivered from that lifestyle.”
Author
Ahsila Griffin
“I mean kurt franklin got married?? and he straight again,? i’m really going throught it.”
NaStacia Onri
“I’m sorry, but… it wasn’t fishy when you let him pick out your wedding dress? You had to know who was helping you shop for your wedding dress. So you did this to yourself, no way in hell I would’ve gone on with the wedding. I read a room down, and I know some people don’t have that gift, but you can’t be serious right now. No way you’re asking us if you should trust him. You knew what we would say. I guess you had to hear it from others POV to really get it, Idk…Either way I wish you nothing but the best and I don’t think you should stay you don’t deserve that. Better to let it go while it’s fresh.”
AnnJeannette Hardin:
“Once I learned about him being with other men, my self esteem wouldn’t allow me to marry him.”
Latosha Rabb:
“I left my gay husband and you can too! The only difference with your situation is that you knew prior to your marriage. I had to find out if you’re not comfortable with it, leave them to their business and walk away.”
Tawanda StarStudded Garner:
“I don’t care if you trust him or not; you married him, so deal with it. It’s possible to be friends after a break-up, however, once you enter a man or a man enter you…..uuuuum.”
Woman learns husband is gay in US
In another story, Mary, who relocated to the US, thought that she had found her dream husband, and it was only after he processed papers for her and her baby to relocate abroad that she knew he was gay.
As if that was not enough, the once-loving man started mistreating her and she did not know what she had to warrant such treatment.
Her questions were later answered when she learnt that her hubby was sleeping with another man.
Source: TUKO.co.ke
