- Oga Obinna’s baby mama, Mama Adalola, explained what, in her perspective, led to their marriage coming to an end
- She claimed that she saw baby mamas coming to her house to sleep, and the way they would behave with the YouTuber
- She also cautioned women who go for married men to know that they risk suffering more than the wife they think they are punishing
YouTuber Oga Obinna’s baby mama, Mama Adalola, has opened up about things that led to their marriage ending after over 10 years.
Source: Facebook
The mother of two recalled how the toxic marriage turned her into a nagging woman and shared how she would take the same time to ‘make noise’ as it took to be wronged.
What happened to Obinna’s marriage?
She shared a lengthy post on her Facebook where she referred to her ex-husband as Santa and recalled how he would bring his other baby mamas into the house.
“You know, when my marriage ended, part of me died with it. I would make a lot of noise when someone wronged me, especially “Santa”. He would come home after three days, and I would make noise equivalent to those three days. Three months before the marriage ended, something had happened that changed me completely. My kids were asked to lie about where they had been taken. When I found out the truth, I got very furious and yoh! I didn’t sleep for almost a week. I knew it was time to pack up whatever was left there. I was a very peaceful woman, quiet and very humble,” read part of her message.
Did Obinna’s baby mama pay her rent?
Mama Adalola also recalled a time she claimed Obinna left the house and had not paid rent for three months, and when asked, he asked the person living there to offset the bill.
“Santa asked me to leave his house, and I told him it was easier for him to leave. I was tired! I knew there was no turning back. Immediately, I got a job somewhere as a team leader, and I was happy that I would be able to provide for my kids. When I was at work, he moved out. He carried whatever he felt was necessary and left us there: me and the four kids. But after moving out, the house was never paid for three months, and I got to know after he took the other kids,” she added.
She further claimed that she later discovered who her husband’s side chick was and even saw her getting pregnant, and cautioned women against targeting married men.
“For those 13 years, we had parted ways before for close to a year, and I kept on begging for him to return to me, and he came back on his own, but this time felt different. I didn’t bother. Marriages bring low self-esteem, you go there catwalking and leave while limping,” she further said.
Here is her post:
Here are some of the comments from social media users:
@Christine Muketha said:
“It takes two to tangle. Seek therapy & self-care. Blame games only hurt more. Social media is no place to heal.”
@Florence Ochanda said:
“Marriages may not be perfect, most of them are not. When you choose to move out, just go and let go.”
@Pretty Daisy Erikodi said:
“You were not compatible, accept and move on, dude has worked on himself, he pays bills and is a present dad.”
@Pamella Adalla said:
“Marriage is a scum plus life is very spiritual.”
Source: Instagram
When did Obinna welcome fifth child?
The YouTuber recently revealed that he discovered he has a fifth child and claimed that his baby mama had removed her birth control without his knowledge.
He further shared that he only discovered the pregnancy through a third party, which prompted him to call the lady.
According to him, when he was doing Dem wa Facebook’s homecoming, his child was being born on that same night in Eldoret.
Source: TUKO.co.ke
