- TV personality Grace Msalame shares two daughters with her ex, Paul Ndichu, with whom she has maintained a healthy co-parenting relationship
- She opened up about how their toxic relationship led to her getting pregnant despite her family being against it
- In an interview, Msalame shared how dealing with grief after losing her father and a message from Ndichu led to her being a mum
Veteran media personality Grace Msalame has opened up on what led to her getting pregnant with her twins despite being in a toxic relationship.
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Msalame shares her two daughters with Paul Ndichu, who is a twin brother of Janet Mbugua’s ex-husband, Eddie.
How did Grace Msalame get pregnant?
In an interview with Reverend Kathy Kiuna on her Woman Without Limits show, the mother of three also shared how going through a heartbreak and losing her father, Tony Msalame, who died in 2010, affected her.
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“A few weeks after finishing that program, the first man I met had that name. And I was like Hallelujah. The Lord has answered my prayer. He watched His word to perform it and backs it up with scripture. Are they in church? No. I just heard the name. He was tall and handsome, that’s it. You quickly learn very differently; give yourself time. So to, and eventually we broke up,” she said.
According to Grace, she knew the relationship was unhealthy because everybody around her was against it, and she had changed into someone else.
“People around you are not happy; they see the red flag that you don’t. My mum saw them, my dad never supported, and that is when I said I am old enough, let me get my own place. And my father was like who is this girl? I just became someone else; you become a totally different person. And that is a sign something is off,” she said.
The media personality also narrated how she struggled for years with the guilt of not saying goodbye to her father, who died in May 2010.
“Here I am, horrible breakup, losing my dad, it was just one thing after another. The ex reaches out. And I say this only to share that grief can be dangerous. How you handle grief, take that pain to God. If you are a believer, take that pain to him and let him heal you and work on your heart. When he reached out to say sorry for the loss, that is when I became a mother,” she added.
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Here are some of the comments from social media users:
@Penny said:
“I agree with her.”
@Esther Waweru said:
“I have been here, but I am now happy.”
@Kim Hildah said:
“It is giving a daughter-mum confession story.”
@Maggy Soita said:
“Something worth listening to.”
@Perry said:
“I do not know how to save myself after my dad died last month. I am born again but I feel like going away from my faith.”
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What did Msalame say on Ndichu’s 40th birthday?
The media personality earned praise from fans after posting a heartwarming birthday message to her ex-partner, Ndichu, and his twin brother, Eddie, as they turned 40.
The Ndichu twins celebrated their milestone with a luxury trip to a shooting range in Kajiado, while Msalame used the occasion to publicly wish them “goodness and mercy.”
While many social media users lauded the healthy co-parenting relationship displayed, others humorously admitted they could never be as friendly with their own exes.
Source: TUKO.co.ke
