- A middle-aged woman posted a TikTok video warning her husband’s side chick against having children with him
- Mum Aidah boldly shared her reasons for issuing the warning, seemingly suggesting she had no problem with the man’s cheating
- The video sparked mixed reactions online, with many praising her boldness while others defended a child’s right to live in their father’s home
A woman has issued a blunt warning to her husband’s side chick, urging her not to have children with him.
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Mum Aidah, who appeared to have made peace with her husband seeing another woman, shared her concerns in a TikTok video.
She explained that, as his only legal wife, it would not be her responsibility to raise children fathered by her husband with another woman.
“As the main wife, I am not responsible for anything that happens between you. Once you get pregnant or have a child with my husband, please try to take care of your children, because I will not agree to look after children who are not mine,” she said.
Why Mum Aidah warned her husband’s side chick
Mum Aidah noted that she did not want to mix her children with others and be expected to take responsibility, yet she was not involved when those children were conceived.
She also urged women who were dating her husband, or planning to have children with him, to take care of themselves so such issues would not arise.
The middle-aged woman added that she no longer followed her husband’s every move, saying she had reached a point where self-love mattered more to her than anything else.
“The moment we chose self-love over anything,” she said.
Her remarks sparked a range of reactions online, with many TikTok users praising her boldness.
Netizens react to woman warning hubby’s side chick
Ruthie Mbabazi:
“When did we get to this level? Women are finally choosing themselves and that’s on period.”
Borninity:
“The house belongs to my boyfriend, and my child has a right to grow up in his father’s house, thank you.”
Detta Grapes:
“It’s the way she said tomanyila at the end and kept a straight face throughout the entire video.”
Phionah Lyka:
“Yes queen, I love the message, well delivered, and I definitely know a queen when I see one. This year is so slippery, guys.”
Jackie Brendah:
“You spoke for many of us. Sisterhood is proud of you. If I repost, you guys will think I’m talking to someone.”
Racheal5236:
“So precise and concise, but it speaks volumes. Very simple and clear. Thank you for reminding them on our behalf, and guys, don’t forget to stay cool.”
How did Kenyan woman ask hubby’s side chicks to keep off?
In other news, TUKO.co.ke reported that a woman named Mama Angel posted a video accusing her husband of secretly interacting with other women.
In the viral clip, she issued a stern warning to women interested in her husband, noting that he is a family man.
Social media users had mixed reactions to her actions, with some calling it an invasion of privacy while others sympathised with her.
Source: TUKO.co.ke
